“Wisely, and slow. They stumble that run fast.” –
William Shakespeare
POST WRITTEN BY LEO BABAUTA. FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER.
How many times have
you rushed into making changes in your life — a habit change, learning a new
skill — only to have it flop?
It’s not just the
New Year’s Resolution Syndrome — it happens too often at all times of the year,
that we run out of steam or get discouraged and give up.
But here’s the
secret, and I won’t charge you $29.95 for it: go slowly.
This little change
has more power than most people realize. It will help to learn any skill, from
martial arts to art to computer activities. It will help form habits that are
long-lasting. Slowing down will help you become more effective and ironically,
help reach goals faster.
If you’ve ever tried
T’ai Chi (or Taijiquan), famous for its series of slow movements and poses,
you’ve felt the power of slow. The slower you go in T’ai Chi, the better, for
many reasons. One effect of this slowness is that you perfect the movements.
And your body adapts, forming muscle memories that will last when (and if) you
decide to speed up the movements.
It’s as if your body
and mind are forming a groove through continual repetition of the movements. If
you move quickly, you’ll be erratic, and the groove will be much more difficult
to form. If you move slowly, you can learn to move in exactly the same pattern,
in a more precise way, and a groove will form. Once the groove is formed, it
becomes easier. It’s now habit, unconscious memory, and automatic.
This is habit formation, and usually it’s done without thought.
When we drive home and our minds are on something else, but we make the right
motions to get home anyway … this is habit, this is our minds and bodies going
in a groove we’ve formed by doing these actions so many times before.
The groove is best
formed by going slow, at first.
This applies to
anything: exercise, eating healthy, creating art, becoming a patient parent,
carpentry, reading. Slow is the secret to making it last. And no, that’s not
meant to be dirty.
Some of the reasons
slow works, besides forming a groove:
1. Mindfulness. When you do
something slowly, you can pay more attention to what you’re doing. I highly
recommend that when you make changes, you do them mindfully, with full
concentration. This increased awareness is necessary in the beginning, when
you’re still forming the groove. Later, it’ll become automatic, but at first
it’s anything but. You need to pay attention, and you can do this better when
you do it slower.
2. You hold yourself back. Holding ourselves
back is often considered a bad thing, but it’s not. It’s the best thing we can
do, if we want changes to last. When we start a new change, often we are full
of enthusiasm. But then we go all out and use up all of that enthusiasm, and
run out of motivation or energy or get distracted by something else. But when
you hold yourself back, you build up enthusiasm and keep it going for much
longer — through that dreaded 2-3 week barrier when people often quit. So even
if you want to run 3 miles at first, start with walking and then run-walking (in
intervals), and only do a mile or so. You’ll want to do more, but stop
yourself. Save that enthusiasm for next time.
3. You learn it right. Doing something
slowly means you can learn to do it correctly, without being erratic, and later
as it becomes second nature you’ll do it the right way. The importance is
obvious in something like martial arts, but it’s also true in any physical
activity. And every activity is physical (and mental).
4. Increased focus. When you do
something slowly, you tend to do just one thing. It’s hard to multi-task and do
something slowly — they don’t mix well. When you single-task, you can focus,
instead of always being distracted. This leads to increased effectiveness.
5. Calm. Slow is calmer.
Fast is hectic. Go slow to get rid of the chaos, and find peace.
“Slow down, everyone. You’re moving too fast.” –
Jack Johnson
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